1. To see and hear what is there instead of what should be, was, or
2. To say what one feels and thinks instead of what one should.
3. To feel what one feels instead of what one ought.
4. To ask for what one wants instead of always asking for permission.
5. To take risks in one’s own behalf instead of choosing to be "only"
secure and not rock the boat.
Submitted by Madeleine